if you want to be the kind of mate the Bible talks about, it may be too late to start reading and studying your Bible after you’re married. 

You could chance it but it could be a rocky start to the marriage.

Why take that chance?

Marriage is challenging enough when both partners are saved, sanctified, and the Holy Spirit is the third partner in the relationship.

What did you decide?

Are you ready to be a loving husband? Wife?

That’s wonderful if you replied, ‘Yes.’

But…  the issue of insecurity still needs to be addressed.

A person can love with all his/her heart and perform everything the Bible tells them to do –

But one would still be miserable if the insecurity issue has not been dealt with.

One’s spouse cannot make one feel secure, that is something within that the individual needs to take to God.

We should be delivered from insecurity and the nagging feeling of fear and anxiety hovering over us in order to become  godly, stable spouses.

“Let the beloved of the LORD rest secure in him,

for he shields him all day long,

and the one the LORD loves

rests between his shoulders.”

—Deuteronomy 33:12

Discuss your feelings of insecurity: